Oga Obinna Opens Up About Forgiving Cheating and Heartbreak

Oga Obinna has shared a deeply personal account of his experience with heartbreak and infidelity, revealing that he has forgiven cheating in the past. During his YouTube show on Monday, December 1, 2025, he described the ordeal as one of the most painful moments of his life, leaving a lasting impact for years. “I have forgiven cheating before. I have been there. I have spoken about it as well. It was a very serious heartbreak. I was heartbroken for like two years. I was depressed,” he said.

Obinna explained that his struggle was not about the options available to him at the time. “That is why I am telling you love is different. Bro, you will have a gazillion women chasing you, but utakua tu na huyu,” he said, highlighting that true love involves a deep connection with one person, making betrayal particularly difficult.

Why Do People Cheat, According to Oga Obinna?
Reflecting on infidelity, Obinna said that cheating often has emotional roots. “Women cheat for different reasons. When they cheat, it is emotionally invested, so when a woman cheats on you, alikaa chini akakuangalia, aka fall in love (with someone else), akaanza ku entertain the idea. It is something planned,” he explained. Understanding this emotional dimension helped him process his own experience and eventually find forgiveness.

What Can Heartbreak Teach About Love?
Obinna emphasized that painful experiences offer important lessons about love and human behavior. He said love is not always rational and that forgiving someone does not erase the hurt but allows a person to accept what happened and move forward. He noted that recognizing the emotional factors behind cheating can help people process the pain and make sense of their experiences.

“But then ukitoka kwa hiyo love uko zile za like, surely, ni nini nilikua nimeona kwa huyu mtu. That is why you can’t explain love,” he added, highlighting the unique and complex nature of human relationships.

Through his reflections, Oga Obinna demonstrates that heartbreak, though painful, can lead to growth and understanding. Forgiveness, he suggests, is not about forgetting but about learning, accepting, and finding peace within the journey of love.

By Risper Akinyi